Leadership = genuinely checking in with people
The New Year leave people feeling like a deflated balloon đand the post-holiday blahs are not uncommon. January 16th is known as the gloomiest day for many â Blue Monday. đ
We should be genuinely checking in with people on a regular basis, but it might be a good idea to take a little extra time today to do that. Here are some things you could try.
âAsk curious questions
âWhat did you do over the weekend or last night?â
âWhat are you looking forward to today or this week?â
âHow are you really doing?â
You could also try, âIâm curious if you would feel comfortable telling me if and when youâre not fine?â because Iâm available to talk.â
đSincerely Listen
Concentrate completely on the other person
Listen to what they say
Notice the tone of their voice
Take in their gestures and body language
Keep silent until they have finished
Avoid giving advice unless they ask for it
Reflect back what you heard to ensure itâs accurate.
Ask follow-up questions
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